As I
consider my own life before the Lord, I am aware that one of my deepest
longings is to be desired, to be cherished and seen as the delight of the heart
of another. While this can happen to a wonderful degree at the level of human
relationships, the reality is that down deep inside, we have a sense that we
were made to love Someone and to be loved by Someone in an infinite way. We
know there is something inside us that will not be satisfied until we are able
to release our love in a fervent single-mindedness that brings focus and
passion to everything we do. The awareness of this longing causes an ache in
the human soul that simply cannot be assuaged except by the touch of the
infinite Lover, and by our response—a fervent commitment to Him. Only He can go
that deep, only He can love that way. Only He can elicit that kind of response.
This is the
reality that is at play in the staggeringly beautiful encounter between the
Shulamite and the king at the end of chapter 1 and the beginning of chapter 2
of the Song of Solomon. In verse 12 of chapter 1, having been invited to the
place of intimacy in which she could come to know the heart of the king, she
begins to express the romantic inclinations of her heart by declaring that her
perfume is drawing his attention, even as he sits at the dinner table. She
muses on the passions of her heart, giving poetic expression to that which burns
inside:
A bundle
of myrrh is my beloved to me, that lies all night between my breasts.
My
beloved is to me a cluster of henna blooms in the vineyards of En Gedi.
Song
1:13-14
The king
responds, articulating the very thing she longs to hear, his fiery words
instilling in her heart a passion deeper than she has ever known:
Behold,
you are fair, my love! Behold, you are fair! You have dove's eyes.
Song 1:15
To be
considered fair by the king! In his words are the power of life and death. And
he calls her fair! The power of it grips her soul, entering deep within the
secret chambers of her heart, the places of insecurity and fear that have not
been completely healed. She is not yet the mature bride who will emerge later
in the Song. She is still the immature maiden who knows there is weakness in
her, who is painfully aware of her propensity to unfaithfulness and sin.
His words
begin to change that. He speaks of her as having “dove’s eyes.” To us, that
sounds poetic but sort of meaningless until we understand that a dove has the
capacity to focus its eyes on only one thing at a time. It sees only one thing.
And when the king is speaking this reality over the Shulamite, he is declaring
to her that in his view she has already reached the single-minded fervency of
love that her heart desires. He sees her as fair and faithful, and this at the
very beginning of their relationship. How can this be?
In our
article next week we will explore further the answer to this burning question:
How can God call me beautiful before I’ve done anything for Him? Blessings on
you all!
Gary Wiens